Life is like a recipe. You've got the fun and yummy ingredients but you've also got the necessary gross ingredients that don't
become something great until all mixed in. Life is the same. You've got your good days and then you've got your trials. Taking
trials by themselves, they're terrible and bitter. But when all mixed into life, you see the blessings and wonderful joys they bring.
Like flour and baking powder, you have your necessary evils. Butter is like the grease of working. Sugar is like the good days,
they make everything sweet. But when all of these are mixed together, you come out with something wonderful... hopefully. When
you mix the elements of life, you also come out with something very... Extraordinary.
Welcome to the recipe of our lives.

Monday, November 5, 2012

The New Little Guy

My beautiful sister Jenn was due on December 3rd. Early yesterday morning she was having contractions and after going to the hospital, they were told they'd have a baby that day!

Treyson Kade Romriell, Welcome to the fam!:) You've got the greatest big brother, and lots of loving aunts!

After surgery and a few days of recovery, this little guy will get to go home!
Oh how I can't wait to hold him!






The Makings of a Happy House Wife

There is only one thing more annoying than having a huge pile of laundry to do. Not having the ability to do it. 
When we first got engaged, a family that lived down the street from Derek's family 
were selling their fridge, washer, and dryer. 
For CHEAP.
We bought them, not having any idea what our situation would be like. It was like a "just in case."
And it turned out great. 
Until we moved. 

After we packed the washer and dryer up and drove them 14 hours, we realized that our dryer was electric and we had gas hookups. (Bec, don't tell Deric! He'll tell us "I told you so" haha)
And then, when we tried to hook up the washer, water went everywhere and we had no idea why. 

So... We decide to sell them. And in the meantime, piles and piles and piles and some more piles piled up.
We sold them on Craigslist, but the guy buying them turned out to be really odd and things were seeming not right so we revoked the offer. 

Before


Then, my wonderful family came to town and with a generous gift from my dad, we got it all taken care of. We bought a new dryer, and Kevin and my cute hubby were able to find a silly hole in the washer hose and were able to get a new hose for free! No need for a new washer! Huge blessing!

Our old lone dryer. Out on the porch. So white trash, I know but we haven't sold it yet. I promise it has a tarp over it. And it's below the fence, so it doesn't look terrible, but we still know what it is;)

And then my wonderful family helped us to put up a shelf and two rods... one for hanging clothes and one to cover up the laundry hole in the wall. Feels more like a home already!

 Lovely shelf:)

 New dryer and rod for hanging

And the beautiful After:)

You never know what you have till it's gone... I now find laundry to be a blessing... or.... the ability to do laundry that is;)

Thursday, October 25, 2012

The Recipe for an Extraordinary Life : New Name

So. I'll admit it. I'm a pro stalker when it comes to the internet. Be it facebook, pinterest, or instagram. I end up on people's pages that I know nothing about. But boy do they have cute stuff! My new found obsession? Blogs. I haven't quite figured out how to stalk blogs, but reading friend's blogs has begun to take up some of my time. And it didn't take too many blog readings for me to realize that my title was hanging way too far off the lame cliff.

Since being married, and because I didn't cook much before being married, I've been trying new recipes almost every night. Some turn out great, some don't. All have been from pinterest. But as I've been trying these out, I've begun to see what really goes into meals. And I've reflected back on some of the failures at recipes, like the time my best friend in elementary school and I accidentally doubled the flour recipe in cookies. Too much of that stuff and your cookies cook like rocks. Or the time my roommate forgot to put the egg in her brownies... I've come to realize just how much one single ingredient means and what can happen if you use too much.

Taking this, and the need for a new blog title, it came to me. Recipes are like life.

To  explain, I'm going to use a recipe for some of my favorite pieces of heaven : Mint Chocolate Brownies.
This recipe is just one I found off the internet, but my favorite happen to be my old roommate Tiffany's. But.. I don't have the recipe. Tiffer Beans, if you're reading this, will you send it to me? Pretty please with mint brownies on top?  And just as there are multiple recipes for Mint Chocolate Brownies, there are many different recipes for life, billions actually. We all have our own. The following is just mine.


Mint Chocolate Brownies

Brownies: comparable to normal life. Life without the heaven. Still good. But not AMAZING like mint chocolate ones, ya know?

4 squares unsweetened baking chocolate: The baking chocolate here is what makes the brownies brown. It defines the brownies. This is like what defines you. Your past experiences, likes, dislikes, it's you. Whatever you is.
1 cup butter: seeing as it's like grease, this is like work. And for me, it's like school. It's the hard work we put into our lives.
4 eggs: eggs are my least favorite part about baking. I hate cracking the shell and trying to not get any inside the bowl and throwing it away and the stuff that gets on your hands. In this case, eggs are like my trials. And we experience a lot of them. And they're necessary. And inevitable. But in the end, all worth it.
2 cups sugar: this is the good days in life. Those days that just make you realize how good and how sweet life really is.
1 tsp vanilla: This is the little things you get excited for. Like the Taylor Swift cd coming out or a Pretty Little Liars episode or Your Love Is My Drug coming on the radio. It's the good things. The little ones.
1 1/4 cup flour: I hate flour. It's hard to pack, it's hard to keep off the counter, if you stir it too fast it gets everywhere. I hate it. I also hate dishes and laundry. But they're necessary for life to progress just as flour is for a batter to make anything. Necessary. Evils.
1/2 tsp baking powder: This is the bad days in life. You have just enough to experience the good days, but just like with baking powder, too many can really ruin your mood.

Frosting: to me, it's very much comparable to love. It's the icing on the cake, what makes everything about life (or our brownies) so sweet and enjoyable. Without it we have just brownies, or just life. You do the same thing day in and day out and there's not a whole lot of meaning. But when you have that person, that person who makes you you, that person that you share your life with, all the ups and downs, life is suddenly  happier and richer and our brownies have a heavenly taste.

2 cups powdered sugar: I love powdered sugar. Especially on french toast. I get giddy about it and I sprinkle everything in it. Lots of it. This is like the joy and the laughter in life. The more you have, the better. And you love it.
4 tbsp butter, softened: Just as with the brownies, this butter means work. But even though the pay off in the first one is great, the pay offs here are even greater. And working on your marriage or relationship is softer, it doesn't take as much elbow grease (hence the softened.) It's gentle and loving, but still work. It's not easy stuff, but produces great results.
1 1/2 tsp mint extract: this is what makes it taste good. Love makes life taste good. Life is better with a whole lot of love.
1-2 tbsp milk: a big thing I've learned with recipes is that milk helps to combine everything. If things aren't mixing well, milk fixes that (if your recipe calls for it that is.) In our relationship, quality time is the milk. Being apart for most of our dating and engagement, we realized just how important being together is. It pulls all of the wonderfulness of love together. It pulls you two together. It's no longer Me and You, love makes a We. We love quality time together.
green food coloring: This is what helps you to know the mint part is there. If it wasn't green, you might not pick it up (if you're like me) because it would look like just another plain ol' brownie. This is like affection. It helps you to know that love is there. That your person feels it too. You don't even have to say "Hey, this is a mint brownie", you see it and you know. With affection, you feel it and you know.

Chocolate Glaze: I hope to not offend anybody, but in our lives, The Gospel Of Jesus Christ and the LDS church are our chocolate glaze. Brownies with the mint frosting would be wonderful alone, but there's something that that little chocolate glaze does for the taste buds. There's something that the gospel does for our lives that is so sweet and so wonderful. You notice when it's not there, so we don't skimp on the chocolate glaze part.

6 oz semi-sweet chocolate chips: In our lives, these are prayer and tender mercies. As long as you have a few chocolate chips, you'll get a sweet chocolate taste. As long as you pray a little, you'll see some tender mercies. But as with chocolate chips and the function of the more you put in, the sweeter it gets... it's the same with prayers. The more you say, the sweeter and more tender mercies come your way. Like I said, we notice when it's not there, we don't skimp on the chocolate part.
6 tbsp butter: again, this one means work. You could have the chocolate chips only on top, but melted and then hardened chocolate tends to be a little crunchy. Crunchy does not = glaze. The work here is scripture study, attending meetings, watching conference, etc. With these, something softer and sweeter comes, just like butter helps the chocolate not to be so crunchy. The chocolate and the butter together create a perfect blend to top off our lives.

Here's the rest of the recipe:
Mint Brownie Recipe

I want our blog to reflect all these aspects of our lives and to document everything our lives are. Welcome to the recipe of our lives!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

14 Reasons To Go To Cabo on Your Honeymoon

Reason #14  : It's absolutely beautiful



Reason #13 : It only rained 1 day while we were there

Reason #12 : Our hotel was so cute and they did up our bed different every day they came in:)


 And lined up our shoes perfectly in a row:)

And made cool animals out of our towels. Derek screamed that there was a swan in our shower, I thought he meant a real one!

Reason #11: Home of some yummy food and some pretty great homemade rootbeer floats

 It was seriously the biggest burger we've ever seen!
 Pool side service is also fantastic!
Probably the only Mexican food we ate all week:)

Reason #10: You can eat at Hardrock Cafe and they give you unlimited refills!



 And they have the yummiest mac and cheese ever! I about died of happiness. Totally copycatting that recipe!



Reason #9 : You can hold a cruise ship in your hands!



Reason #8 :  They have funny signs!

No smoking, no dogs, no ICE CREAM!:)

Reason #7 : The pool has the coolest cabanas with mattresses!




Reason #6: You get sucked into a timeshare presentation (ok, so not a reason to go, but it makes for funny stories!) Story: We got off the plane in Mexico and did all that fun stuff and as we were walking to find our already paid for shuttle some guy called us over and pretended he worked for the shuttle company. He offered us a lot of activities for like a fourth of their original price and thinking that he worked for the shuttle company we bought it! And then was when he decided to tell us that in order to get them we'd have to attend a presentation for a timeshare.... oh shoot. So we went on this two hour tour and sat with the sales people for what seemed like forever and told each and every one of them that we "just got married. Saving for a house. Can't afford this right now. blah blah blah." Finally after they lowered the price from 31,000 to 6,000 and we still said no, they let us go! But hey! If you have the money, why keep it to just going to Cabo on your honeymoon! Go there for a week every year for the rest of your lives!









Reason #5 : You can go Parasailing off the Pink Panther!


Reason #4 : You can take a cool glass bottom boat tour of some of the coolest sights you've ever seen!




 The tour guide told us that cave is magical... "Two people go in, Three people come out" hahahaha





Reason #3: You can take a bicitaxi in the pouring rain after you just finished swimming with dolphins (we don't have pictures of the dolphin encounter:( )





Reason #2 : Your feet get really sandy!


Reason #1: You'll be really sad to leave!


Cabo was seriously the funnest vacation we've ever been on and we loved it! Can't wait to go back!